You are absolutely correct, the screenshot i provided is from the Drupal 7 forum, I was showing the function i was trying to enable, In the Attached...

As a side note, I find this forum far nicer to work with the the other option. thanks for making a nice product.

UPDATE: These settings worked for me, Also i installed the anti spam thing. See attached. Fixed.png

I just had one happen, This is the users first post ever, in a topic that is active. I had to Approve the comment See attached. reply1.png

On mine AKismet is not even installed.

These are the settings for the Group. See attached. Settings.png