How to Change my Forum Accesses setting
I'm sorry but I don't follow you weel.
As I can see in the screenshot below the following can's is checked, so you will able to delete and edit your own Post and Reply.
. Can edit own topic
. Can edit own reply
. Can delete own topic
Also please read Robert's answer in this support topic to better understand the Forum Accesses: https://wpforo.com/community/how-to-and-troubleshooting-2/user-roles-and-permission-issues/#post-21032