why after the update all the pages of the site became with an error 404! except forum pages
Your topic says nothing to let us help you. So please leave a forum URL, and a direct URL to the page with 404 error. In most cases, this could be a cache plugin issue or conflict with other plugins.
And don't forget to flush permalinks by navigating to WordPress Settings > Permalinks admin page and clicking the [Update options] button.
I returned the old version of the forum! why the new one does not have such a function for adding pages
Please update to wpForo 2.0 version again, then go to Dashboard > Boards admin page, edit the first board and turn on the option you are looking for. Here is the doc: https://wpforo.com/docs/wpforo-v2/getting-started/forum-page/turn-wordpress-to-wpforo/