wpforo super slow and slowing down rest of my site
um, that is for wordpress debugging i thought you meant a dedicated log for wopforo debugging. I enabled "debug mode" in wpforo settings. It recommends not to enable wordpress debugging on a live site anyways.
anyways in the meanwhile.....
A cookie associated with a cross-site resource at <URL> was set without the `SameSite` attribute. A future release of Chrome will only deliver cookies with cross-site requests if they are set with `SameSite=None` and `Secure`. You can review cookies in developer tools under Application>Storage>Cookies and see more details at <URL> and <URL>.
DevTools failed to load SourceMap: Could not load content for http://localhost:8080/headless-content.js.map: Connection error: net::ERR_CONNECTION_REFUSED
(index):1575 GET https://hidden.com/wp-content/themes/ultimatube/assets/js/skip-link-focus-fix.js net::ERR_ABORTED 404 (Not Found)
(index):1576 Uncaught TypeError: Cannot read property 'editor' of undefinedat (index):1576
(anonymous) @ (index):1576
autoptimize_56529735c2e38d2121d90c03f164e842.js:2 JQMIGRATE: Migrate is installed, version 1.4.1
(index):121 GET https://hidden.com/wp-content/themes/ultimatube/assets/stylesheets/font-awesome/fonts/fontawesome-webfont.woff2?v=4.7.0 net::ERR_ABORTED 404 (Not Found)
(index):1 Unchecked runtime.lastError: The message port closed before a response was received.
server guys also say that wpforo is causing my actual server to overload via php-fpm: pool